Order of protection denied in Florida!! Help!?

wtf?!! I had doented police records of harrasing, not leaving my house, he is an alcoholic and drug abuser with a prior stalking and domestic violence order against him. we dated a year. i filed and temp was approved. in court he had atty, i did not but I had a voice mail from him threatening to make my life a living hell, swearing and saying he would within the bounds of the law of course not harm me physically, but he would make me beg him to stop, wish I was dead and pick off my friends and family one by one - I played this in court.... his atty basically said the last known violence was more than 6 months ago, that his vm was non threatening and he only was contacting me to see my kids which he bonded with. The judge denied my petition. basically did not even look at my evidence - I felt helpless. I even asked her what is a woman to do to protect herself? Its like the judge protected him.. but she did tell him 'this relationship is over, so you really do not have any reason to contact her or write about her (oh he also blogs about me and defames me because I will not return his calls or emails).. this has been going on over 7 months!! Why would I be denied... it was clear this guy is imbalanced! Can I do anything about it now? also, after court, he blogged about me again and today he tried calling me - but no message this time and from another number. I do not want to be a statistic, I am a mother of young kids! My ex husband wants to beat thisn guy up - but of course hed be arrested right? I am so frustrated and feel so betrayed by a legal system that should be protecting me. I did everything right and defended myself, proved my case (well, not to the judge apparently)... if I fight back, I am in trouble, right? But he basically just got permission to do whatever he wants with no legal recourse on my part and he KNOWS this. I am terrified he is going to do something now because he left court all y and has had no consequence for his ongoing harrasment... any advice?

How to obtain success and prosperity in this world and hereafter?

Masha Allah, well said Vanilla. May Allah bless you and may Allah help you in spreading his word. Ameen.

Decorating help??

Okay so I'm moving to my apartment in a couple of months and I am trying to figure out how I"m going to decorate everything.. I've got my two bathrooms and my bedroom, but I need a little advice from people on my living room... I have white/beige-ish suede couches, and what I was going to do was paint the walls an orange-peach color and then get throw pillows with white, peach, and brown to match my furniture and curtains... but then I have this papisan chair that has a mint greenish cushion... if I were to keep that color and avoid having to buy another cushion, what could I do to incorporate that color into the scheme? Should I maybe add another color to balance the peach and mint green? And if so what color? Or should I just throw out that green cushion and get a new one? Because I know it's going to be really hard to get those two colors to work together.. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! Thanks in advance!! :)

When confronted with a group of anonymous people...?

"MY job is to shed light, and not to master"-Jerr Garcia from "Terripin Station". It's better to make your statement and lead by example. Playing anonymous is to be indifferent, but you can lead, or walk your walk and talk your talk as long as you are sincere and you take action, not necessarily lead. That is a choice. Having said that, "The thing more likely to kill a leader is delusions of Grandeur and a sense of controlling the the mes. Example" Hitler. Leaders are not anonymous.

Can anyone help me with my complex numbers HW?

They are both true and the proofs are almost identical to the corresponding poofs for real polynomials.

Arab Dating please help?

Because, to him, you are just property.. He owes you nothing, you owe him everything... you need to learn the culture before getting there,,, it may surprise you, but really should scare you

My opinion on how mainstream music got popular?

Most metalheads and grunge fans buy albums instead of singles and are bright enough to know that CD quality beats Internet bought mp3s, which is what a lot of charts are based on.